tandem couple

The term "tandem couple" in diplomacy refers to a situation where both spouses are in the Foreign Service. Historically, diplomatic wives played a significant but secondary role, managing household duties and social obligations. This often led to immense strain, with some ambassadors retiring early due to the demanding lifestyle.1

In response to these challenges, Japan began paying diplomatic wives a salary. By the late 20th century, the U.S. Foreign Service no longer required women to resign upon marriage. However, combining careers for "tandem couples" presented difficulties, often requiring them to alternate assignments or take leave when not posted together. Despite these hurdles, over 500 tandem couples were employed by the U.S. Foreign Service by the end of the 20th century, with some serving simultaneously as ambassadors.1