Vam asks: "Is it OK to add of before the year such as "January first of 2010"? And is it OK that the word the is not before first?"
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If you write "January first of 2010" you're adding emphasis to the year, as if making sure that it's clear that you're not talking about a different year.
Here's an example of how it might be used:
--"I haven't had champagne since New Year's Day last year."
--"You mean since 2009?"
--"No, I mean since January first of 2010."
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As for the second part of your question, it's not idiomatic to use the in conjunction with the date in English. It is grammatically possible, of course, but very seldom heard.